Mediation is often lauded as a process that offers divorcing couples an opportunity for amicable resolution. Central to its success is the principle of mediator neutrality, a cornerstone of the mediation process. But what exactly does neutrality in mediation mean, and why is it so vital? In this article, we’ll explore the concept of neutrality […]
In or Out of Court: One of the Gut-Wrenching Choices of the Divorce Dilemma You want to fight as little as possible. There’s been enough fighting already. BUT You’re concerned about getting what is fair and understanding your rights. You want your story told. You finally want to be heard. BUT You want everyone to […]
Mediation is a process built on trust, impartiality, and the belief that a neutral mediator will guide parties toward resolution without mediator bias. However, there are instances when a mediator may unintentionally or intentionally stray from neutrality, leaving participants feeling frustrated or unheard. In this article, we’ll explore signs that your mediator may not be […]
“In mediation, integrity is the name of the game.” I’ve spent years helping couples navigate the challenging waters of divorce through mediation, and one particular experience stands out as a striking example of the power of mediator integrity. It’s a tale that underscores the importance of remaining impartial and transparency’s crucial role in the mediation […]
Divorce is a challenging and emotional experience for everyone involved, including the children. However, it is possible to navigate this rugged terrain in a way that minimizes the negative impact on your kids. While divorce usually isn’t “good,” there are strategies you can employ to make it less harmful for your children. Let’s explore some […]
Divorce is hard enough without having to worry about the financial repercussions. That’s where a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA) comes in. A CDFA® is a specialist trained to help you navigate the financial challenges of divorce. Here’s what you need to know about CDFAs® and why you should consider working with one. If you’re […]
Establish rules and guidelines for co-parenting Brene Brown says that rules are guidelines, not weapons. So when it comes to rules for co-parenting, think of them as guideposts to help you and your ex find your way to be the best parents to your children. Of course, every family is different, so you’ll want to […]
One of the most common questions I hear during my first call with someone who wants a divorce or heard it from their spouse is, "where do I start?" It's a great question, and when people stop to think that through instead of jumping into a process that is not best suited for them or their family, they almost always have a better outcome and less expensive divorce.
One of the most common questions I hear during my first call with someone who wants a divorce or heard it from their spouse is, "where do I start?" It's a great question, and when people stop to think that through instead of jumping into a process that is not best suited for them or their family, they almost always have a better outcome and less expensive divorce.
In divorce, the life you knew it is falling apart. The natural reaction is to cling to what you know and salvage what you can. When everything you thought you knew about your life and your future is in pieces, it can be a struggle to make sense of the fragments that remain. It's typical to want to stay in the house and retain some appearance of normalcy. While it seems like you are providing stability by staying in the family home, think it through. It may be a very high-priced mistake.