Hey there, my extraordinary friends,
As we approach Halloween, a season of enchantment and transformation, I am – let’s say enchanted, such an excellent magical word, by the intriguing parallels between the evolution during divorce and the captivating world of costume transformations. At Halloween time, we try on costumes to step into another world. Our fantasy, creativity, the exploration of a different self. Life is a fascinating journey filled with astonishing changes, and divorce, in its own remarkable way, is like a dramatic costume shift.
Picture this: you begin as one half of a partnership, but after a divorce, you undergo a tremendous metamorphosis- a transformation, emerging as a single, self-reliant superhero! Yes, I’m inviting you to step boldly into the shoes of ‘The Divorce Avenger’ this Halloween.
When divorce takes center stage in your life, it may feel like you’re shedding an old identity and breaking free to unveil a new and empowered version of yourself. Much like the exhilaration of slipping into your Halloween costume, divorce empowers you to become someone different—someone even stronger—someone who courageously fights wholeheartedly for their happiness and freedom.
If you’re one of those who finds scary things, well, terrifying, Halloween may also represent some things you’re not too happy about stepping into. Realistic haunted houses, monsters jumping out at you, things that go bump in the night. That can be divorce too- when you feel like there’s a new surprise around every corner with a big old, “gotcha!”
Remember how you feel when you leave the haunted house (well, me anyway). It’s like this: I don’t want to do it; I don’t want to do it; I can’t do it; I’m stuck; I’m running. I’m out. I’m free. I did it!
Now, it’s not just about shedding a relationship; it’s about finding the space to make your own decisions with authenticity and tireless integrity. It could be as small as choosing the toppings you’ve always craved on your pizza or as ginormous as making that daring career change you’ve dreamt of for years or heading back to school to chase your passions.
Remember, being a ‘Divorce Avenger’ isn’t about seeking revenge or causing harm. It’s about resilience. It’s about harnessing your inner fortitude, discovering your independence, and seizing the opportunity to redefine the narrative of your life. It’s about having the courage to try on a different costume, one that makes you feel exactly how you’ve always wanted to feel.
So, how DO you WANT to feel? Sexy? Adventurous? Treasured? Safe? Confident? Empowered?
The journey through divorce can be likened to a superhero’s origin story, where trials, tribulations, and self-doubt are faced head-on. But just as every superhero emerges from the crucible, you too can emerge more powerful, more determined, and ready to take on the world.
As you venture out to embrace the spirit of the season this Halloween, I invite you to remember this: you’re not just dressing up in a costume but embodying the essence of an actual superhero—someone who relentlessly battles for a cause. In this case, that cause is your happiness, freedom, and a brighter, more promising future.
So, stand tall, dear ‘Divorce Avengers,’ and wear your superhero cape as a symbol of your resilience. You’ve got this!
And remember, you don’t have to navigate this journey alone. If you find yourself seeking guidance, understanding, and unwavering support throughout your divorce journey, Bridging Divorce Solutions is here for you. We are uncompromising in our belief in ‘divorces done differently,’ where empowerment, compassion, and transformation take center stage.
This Halloween, let us all embrace the magic and mystery of transformation and allow our inner ‘Divorce Avengers’ to soar as we embark on this thrilling new chapter of our lives.
With love, strength, and unwavering support,
Brenda
PS – what’s your costume? How are you trying on your own version of “Divorce Avenger,” you superhero you?
